by cjharris | Mar 31, 2019 | life, work
I spent a few horrible years working closely with someone who was a full-blown narcissist. I don’t mean difficult to work with, I mean ticked every single box when I googled “what is a narcissist”. It was only after watching this person systematically destroy others...
by cjharris | Mar 16, 2019 | current affairs, life, politics
It was my birthday yesterday and a friend called to wish me happiness. Instead I cried on the phone for an hour about all the things I was sad about. The day after the horrific massacre in Christchurch, I just couldn’t muster any capacity for joy. How do we go about...
by cjharris | Mar 2, 2019 | life, popular culture, travel, work, writing
Build your author platform, they said. Sign up to Instagram, they said. So I did – about six months ago. And I’m gonna be honest, I still don’t really have a clue what Instagram is for. As far as I can tell, there are now a few different types of Instagrammers...
by cjharris | Feb 16, 2019 | life
Have you ever had someone stay with you about seven days too long? Or got the sinking feeling after six and half days at someone else’s house that YOU might be that person? Well, don’t worry – I’ve got you covered. Based on some recent experience, here’s a list of...
by cjharris | Dec 9, 2018 | current affairs, dating, life, politics
My partner suggested that I write this blog post. To which I replied (roared), ‘ARE YOU TRYING TO TELL ME SOMETHING, SWEETHEART??!!!’ Except I didn’t say the sweetheart part. Here’s how I mastered the art of being angry all the time — and keep my fury constantly...
by cjharris | Oct 8, 2018 | current affairs, dating, life
I’ve been following the Brett Kavanaugh case pretty closely. Last week, I watched the most powerful man in the world mock a sexual assault survivor, the crowd around him laughing and nudging each other – and I was amazed to see that many of them were female. I...
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